its a boy!!

everybody. my baby's gender is a boy!!! abit upset but still its my precious son!! hubby's words make me feel at ease.but i know he wants a baby gal badly. =(

brought adriel for his MMR jab on monday. i went for my appt too. adriel didnt cry when he got his jab!! CLAPS CLAPS. i got my blood test too. ouch. after that went opposite to do my detailed scan. my detailed scan took one hr. gosh. total damage= 300bucks. wanted to opt out for blood test but gynae says it is compulsory.

the sonographer was very nice throughout e detailed scan. she is an indian. she told me she got 2 gals and one boy. her eldest daughter was very bubbly and cheerful. and when she got her no.2 and found out its a gal, she didnt look forward to her arrival and throughout her pregnancy she was very unhappy. den her gal came out to be very gloomy and sad. always staring into blank and dun smile so much. thats y she ask me not to gloom over e gender of e baby. i think its true. but of cos she is blessed to have her 3rd boy. i hope my third one will be a gal!! maybe in e yr of dragon?

hubby bought e induction cooker for me. brand taiyo. damn good!! should have bought it earlier. e temperature is high enough for me to fry things.

im now 63kg. from 56-63. 7kg!! gynae says abit too fast. but im not as fat as wad i was when i was having adriel. its just my tummy is super big.

im having v bad breakout. aloevera gel doesnt help. bought e bioessence spot removal gel. it claims to reduce redness and contract pimple in 3 minutes. remove without any scar in 7 days. we shall see. but so far for 1st day i can see e result. not bad.

not sure izit bcus of my growing tummy. i get tired v easily. my back keep aching. hubby says if i m too tired will hire those part time maid to come in and do e hsework for me. feel so touched! but i believe i can do it ah. maybe when it is near my EDD den i shall ask a part time maid to come in and wash my hse 2-3times per week.

feel like taking a nap but i noe i will bcum v lazy after e nap.

ok. im going to take a rest. bye!

its only 9.43 and adriel is sound asleep. Omg. he is going to wake up v early tml. hubby is working tml!! i think i will postpone my appt. i dun have e courage to go alone. if halfway adriel wants to be carried den i will have to push e 8kg pram and carry him.

yesterday cooked spaggettie with chicken chop!! hubby cook e black pepper sauce and e pasta sauce. SUPER NICE. taste like wad i eat outside. sadly to say, my hubby cooks better than me. so i got to learn from him. LOL. today we ate corn,carrot and potato soup. also got chicken nuggets and stir-fry spinach. average taste.

i dun care i wan to go swimming on sunday. i hope e weather will be nice to me. swim tgt with hubby and adriel. its going to be fun!!

i finally got adriel to eat e nestle cereal. these few days like having war with him trying to get him to eat his cereal. cos i cant possibly let him eat 3 meals of porridge. so breakfast will be cereal or bread with nutella. trying to let him try milo. but he refuse to drink any other fluids other than plain water in his magmag.

im having breakouts on my cheek due to over-heatiness. hubby dun let me drink any cooling stuff. sigh. i feel so ugly whenever i go out. i cant find my pimple cream. ARGH!!!

im craving for bedok reservoir kuey chap. im craving for durians!! but my heatyness!! god. im craving for macdonalds. im craving for xiao long bao.

im pratically eating like a pig. my tummy is super obvious liao. im HUNGRY!!

supposed to wash adriel's bedsheet and bring his pillows and mattress out to suntan. too bad it rained:(

woke up at 10am today. brought adriel down to e market and bought chicken feet and lotus root. hubby says he wants to drink hua shen ji jiao tang(peanut with chicken feet soup). wash and throw all e ingredients into e slow cooker and thats it!! fast and easy. LOL. will be frying potato with lean meat too.
thinking of wad to cook for tml. i think i should make porkchop with spagetties. saw it on tv. looks nice!! i love COOKING!! i love it when i see adriel n hubby eating e dishes which i try-my-best to cook. LOL!!

im so very free these few days. cos i do e hsework while adriel is watching his playhouse disney. LOL. serene yow started her scl life! she is now a STUDENT. ccongrats congrats. OMG. so old still wan act student. LOL!!!! *run and hide* actually not v old la. this yr 19 only. nxt yr 20!!! WTH. im not e teenager anymore. fck it.

haven see mrs lek online for some time. how's zayven??? i love babies. that day went i saw zayven makes me have e urge to give birth immediately. LOL!! SO CUTEEE!! i cant seem to remember adriel have that period of time when he look like that. cos he is one big monkey now. climbing up n down.

times are bad now. ive not been shopping for a long time. shopping=buying my own things. im going to mothercare to spend my 50bucks voucher to ease my addiction. LOL.

after a long discussion with hubby, we've decided that i should be a staying-at-home-mum till both of my kid are able to attend to childcare. which will be at least 2 more yrs? im v particular about e bringing up of kids esp infant. so to prevent any arguements between me and mama, i will do it myself.

i hope hubby will not be working this sat. cos i dun wan to go to e doctor alone!! i will have to bring adriel there for his jab, i will need to scan my unborn baby. and if adriel were to make a scene. OMG.

nobody in msn to chat now. BORED!

NAP

adriel is having a nap right now. his schedule went haywire, got to re-time his nap again.



supposed to go for a swim on sunday, but e weather dont seem to be very good. hubby's cousin came with his gf. he drove us to TM and e new shopping centre. hubby and i went on fri alr. super duper crowded.

went to mount faber and henderson waves on sunday. walk until my legs ache. hubby promised to bring me to cable car dining on his birthday!! i noe he miss his clubbing days. maybe we should head down to club on his birthday. shall ask my mum to take care of adriel at night. anyway he wun wake up till morning. LOL.

finally trained my preccious son to sleep on his own. under e care of my mum, he needs to be carry, pat and ccuddle before he goes into deep sleep. now i just leave him in e playpen with lotsa teddy bear and he will sleep on his own. *clap clap*.
he is super picky bout his food. got to think of new recipes to make him open his mouth. changed his formulae to PEDIASURE by abbott. so far so good.
finally after one month, im going to bring him for his jab. due to his cough n flu i delayed till now. LOL.

going for my checkup too. i think im in my 20weeks alr. which means 5 months pregnant!! my tummy getting bigger and BIGGER. taking nap on alternate days if not im so tired. never-ending household chores. ive decide to take care of adriel and no.2 myself till both of them goes to childcare centre den i will go to work.

im learning to go to e market to buy meat. i cant possibly tell e uncle, "uncle i wan 200gram of lean meat". after asking my mum, this is wad i should say. "uncle, gei wo liang kuai qian de wu hua rou". if im not wrong lean meat is shou rou. cos i always buy my groceries at supermarket. i see all e labels in eng. i dunno e chinese name. LOL. anyway, yesterday hubby and i had grilled chicken. bought two big chicken thigh and marinate overnight. grill with bbq sauce. MARVELLOUS! and it is only 1.80 for one big thigh. i shall invite my sistas over for a meal after i have absolute confidence in my cooking skills. wait patiently huh. LOL.

suddenly i miss e feeling of clubbing. with a glass of martell and a ciggy. WOO. ren jian xiang shou. its all bout e atmosphere there. LOL. wait till both my kids are big enough and we shall hit e club tgt!! hubby said he will bring them there when they are 14. he is open-minded but im not. LOL. im really strict in disciplining my child. hubby banned me from buying cane home. he say if i were to cane adriel. he come back n cane me. WTH. example of disciplining: i put him in highchair whenever it is meal time. at 1st he keep wanting to go to e floor and play while eating cos of my mum's 'training'. i dont care of his scream n shout. i INSIST on feeding in a chair. took me bout one whole week before he change his habit. if he still dun eat i leave him to be hungry. LOL!! hubby will scream at me if he noes this. this is to prevent adriel from running around esp when going out while he having his food.

ok. its 4pm. im going to cook dinner. hubby will be backk at 5 plus!!

pissed off..

im going to zayven's full month celebration later!! WOOHOO.. cant bring adriel cos my mum is super pantang. im going with hubby and huiyu. bought a high chair for zayven hope he like it! it will be super useful when he going to start his semi solid food.

my mum has started work and now e hse is under my care!! wahaha. is really tiring when im pregnant and got to do so many things. this is my schedule for e day:
wake up at 7+ to feed adriel his milk. he will sleep back after that den i nap awhile. wake up at 10+ to cook his food. he wakes up at 11 den will crawl around e hse while learning to walk. bathe him and den feed him his food. 2+ he have his snack. 3pm he have his nap and den i will have to cook for him and for hubby. sweep and mop e floor. do e laundry and take a shower.
he wakes up at 5+ n den have his dinner. he have his milk feed at 10+ and off he sleep. sometimes he sleep at 12am.

super busy right!! but end of e day its really worth it. at least i know adriel is under good care. i have a strong urge to take care of 2kids myself. there is one kind of satisfaction where normal jobs cant give me.

quarrel with my mum yest. im super pissed off with her. ive been doing hsehold chores, hanging e clothes, sweeping, mopping, cleaning and wadever things i can do. once she come home she will nag n nag. nag at wadeva things she can find. i can jolly well throw their clothes aside and wash ours will do. when i was carrying adriel i still do e laundry despite im so heavily pregnant. she doesnt help me n still nag n nag. i swear i will move out once i able to apply for a flat. once, she threaten to beat n push me. im pregnant now leh!!! cant stand her. hurling vulgarities at me every now n den. hubby say she is experiencing her menopause. i supposed so too. if one day she push me down to e floor and thats it. im packing my things and go.

ok. im going to wash adriel's toys now. goodbye!!